A Lady Turns ONE!

Exactly a year ago today, I became a mother of children. It’s been a very joyous, productive, blissful, nurturing and blessed year since having Lady Noa join our humble family. My beloved hubby and 2 year old son are overjoyed, my son in particular. There’s nothing like having a partner in crime to tear up the house with.

How time flies! She has¬†forever changed and blessed our lives abundantly. I’m forever grateful Lady Noa, thank you for choosing us. We love you soooo much!!! Happy first birthday my little angel!!!

Photography by mommy of course. ūüôā

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A Virgin at Diner en Blanc

Many of you know me very well enough by now that I would try anything in life…at least once. That can be said of the French Soiree making grounds on American soil in the form of Le Diner en Blanc, for the 8th time. It sounds so chic, and so French of course. I first spotted the member only group last year in Lincoln Center, fully decked out around the fountain in the plaza. It looked so heavenly seeing everyone and everything in white! I dug deeper in my research only to find out it’s now hosted in 80 cities worldwide and can only join after being waist listed since I didn’t know any of my friends doing it yet to invite me to join.

Less than a year later, I became a confirmed member! And so the preparation began with coming up with table decor, acquiring everything white for my debut. Many people get overwhelmed with over planning and spending too much, bring too much only to use too little. I was lucky enough to rely on ebay and amazon for my essentials. For instance, the roll up table (rolls up into a yoga mat!!! Awesome invention) I acquired brand new from ebay, built all white dolly bag for my cart, made everything compact and lightweight -mindful of the group subway ride to the secret location. Yes, you read right, secret. That is only revealed after gathering with your group just about an hour before the start of event, usually between 5 to 630pm. Choosing the attire was easy, they said no heels, grassy venue, might rain…that meant tone it down, go low key. I cooked some of my beloved’s favorite dishes, Nigerian jollof with Korean style braised beef called Kalbi Jim, ordered a bottle of wine from the event and everything went smoothly. We (6500+) danced the night away and made lots of new friends in the process.

While Hurricane Florence’s rain threatened to ruin the affair…the gawds must have heard our prayers. It held up nicely with only a few sprinkles just at the end of the event. Whew! We dodged that one! Besides having to wait long hours to get on the boat ride to this year’s secret location at Governor’s Island, it was an ok night, and according to seasoned patrons…a disaster! Hopefully the organizers would be mindful of that fiasco and keep the event free of any kind of boat rides to any location. Some patrons actually got sea sick en route to destination!

God willing, will try again next year. A bientot!

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Labor Day to Dance in Feathers

Wah gwan! Another year, another day to parade around in feathers and seem very appropriate in New York, unapologetically. It was a sunny day for West Indies infused cultural afternoon on Eastern Parkway in the heart of trendy Brooklyn, New York City. Of course after all the political dignitaries and luminaries have long gone after hitting the pavements, the lorries with mega loud speakers rolled through. That’s usually a good cue that it’s officially well underway and the festivities may commence. The affair wouldn’t be complete without the sidewalks full of Caribbean food vendors. I myself couldn’t resist if I may say so. By the time the last music blasting truck rolled by I was stuffed and covered in sweat! It was at that very moment I missed the snowy winter months. Alas! Summer 2018 is officially over! Bittersweet feeling.

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From India with love! Bollywood culture is alive and well in New York. I had no idea there was such a thing as Indian day parade until today while on my way out to get my daughter’s ears pierced. The cab driver, which himself is an Indian, shamefully lamented about his lack of knowledge about the festivity. I was stunned to say the least. How on earth could your country be celebrating pride and glory and you not know about it?!

In any event, it was very colorful and entertaining and particularly nostalgic for me to hear some of the classic Indian songs I grew up hearing being played out loud on Madison Avenue.¬† I wish I had on my silk sari I bought during my vacation in India to blend in properly…at least for pictures. It’s nice to see such diversity of people and culture living positively in today’s political climate and hate.

Well, New York City is doing her part in bringing the world together with one parade at a time. No one can be mad about that.

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Festival of Curls!

Oh my! Did I feel right at home or what! The annual festivity of all things natural and curly took place in Prospect Park, Brooklyn yesterday and I am just now slowly coming up for air! I haven’t had this much fun in a long time. My entourage included my beloved 9 months old daughter Noa, besties Tori and Ayo. Of course my daughter stole the show with her life sized doll in one of her old dresses.

The festival, cleverly named Curly Girl Collective, an experiential marketing group that specializes in multicultural beauty had enthusiasts travel from far and wide, many of whom had prepared for months! Choosing the right hairstyle, attire and getting the right entourage are vital ingredients to getting the full energy of the affair. Prior to the D-day, many questioned the validity of the need to get in with a ticket or not. Ticket scammers sold and resold tickets, some of which were originally free! The venue happened to be a free park, open to the public where you could stroll in without the need for a ticket. Unless of course you craved a goodie bag packed with sample products, then you are obliged to shell out a few coins for one. Other than that, you needed positive energy, selfie/photo op ready and good friends around you to enjoy the sun drenched festival of music, friendship, and afrocentric fashion. A good Saturday afternoon well spent!

Looking forward to next year…God willing.

Below are some of my favorite moments at the event. Watch video, click to enlarge photos.

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NY Disability Gets Heard

Disability Pride Parade! Yeap, you read right. If cannabis, LGBTQ, etc can hold their parades in the big apple why not the group of New Yorkers who need our attention the most! Proud citizens in wheelchairs, walking sticks, et.al all made their way from Madison Square Park to Union Square, roughly 10 city blocks away. The city took the opportunity to set up voting registration booths as well. The weather held up nicely to for the event. Disability Pride Parades have been held many times in many places across the United States. The first Disability Pride Day was held in Boston, MA in 1990.

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Nigeria At Pride March

A collective of Nigerian activists, entrepreneurs, dreamers, friends & supporters gathered up today in NYC to celebrate living in their truth at the Pride March. A movement largely frowned upon in Africa as a whole. The group first came together in 2013 to protest the Nigerian government’s law prohibiting same-gender marriage and other relationships, and have continued to resist the oppressive law through lobbying and community education. The group has marched at the parade every year to raise awareness on the plight of LGBTQI Nigerians and Africans. They left no stone unturned thanks to their executive and art director Tori Famuyiwa who spent endless hours designing the attires and the vehicle, bringing Wakanda to life!

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NYC Pride!

Ahhh! Pride march! You’ve been missed! I’ve been absent from the scene for a minute, busy giving birth and rearing two babies! Some of you sent me emails asking when I’ll be returning to my parade coverage. Alas! I bring to you the Pride March photo coverage. As always NYC never disappoints. This year had a bit of an international flare. Perhaps the blockbuster Black Panther movie had something to do with it. A lot of revelers felt more proud than ever to show off their heritage in traditional garbs from Bollywood to Nollywood. Kids were equally prominent alongside their parents, some of which had political messages about keeping families together. Politicians such as Gov Cuomo to hopeful Cynthia Nixon were crowd favorites. Gun control activist Emma Gonzalez debuted at the pride aboard the Stonewall float. Legendary Tennis icon Billie Jean King held was honored as the Grand Marshall.

Click here to see how Nigerians boldly and fearlessly celebrated at the march, a first for any African nation.

Nigerians represented for the first time

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Gun control activist Emma Gonzalez

Gov. Cuomo

Cynthia Nixon

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Black Panther…Wakanda Forever!!!

Unknown-8 Never have I felt so proud to be an African than now! Thanks to the Hollywood blockbuster by Marvel Studios for igniting the flame! Never mind that the Black Panther movie depicting the high tech nation of Wakanda as fictional. The movie gives a very strong message about pride and unity like I have never seen before. It was definitely worth the effort made dressing up to see the movie in theaters. One of the Wakanda citizens was actually wearing the exact same South African Ndebele ring necklace I wore to the theater. Special thanks to my beloved friend Tori for accompanying me! He looks dashing in Nigerian Aso oke agbada!

About dressing up for Black Panther. People talk of it being a fluke or “costume” for a day. Don’t be foolish. I for one I’m a proud Nigerian¬†and have been WOKE for yrs. Look through my page to see me wearing various African garbs right here in NYC from time to time. It’s no dress up for me but an actual pride & joy and do intend to continue!

If you haven’t seen it yet, please do yourself a favor and go!!!

Wakanda forever! ūüôā

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Alas! The Terrible Two!

20180107_163902-01xxx (1)_wmWhen a kid turns 2, they say the parents are to get ready for the terrible two phase. We’ve been experiencing it with my boy @dagoldchain since he was about a year and half! I guess today makes it legit. I can’t believe my little man is now officially a toddler! It feels like only yesterday when he came into this world and here he is gradually growing into a man. Standing tall looking like a gentleman in custom design Dashiki agbada by Omode.¬†It’s hard to believe he is only 2, typically mistaken for a 3+. His 3 month old sister @Ladynoaofficial, is also growing up so fast, one look at her picture below you might mistake her for a 1 year old (was 2 mos old in that pic). She’s been holding up her own neck since birth.

20171228_110048-01_wmBoth kids have changed my life for the best. Motherhood is never easy and I am not here to paint it rosy either. However, it is the best thing that can happen to anyone, no matter the stage in life. The good outweighs the bad (sleepless nights, attention, etc). I wouldn’t trade it for anything else.¬†20180107_164237-01xxx

@Dagoldchain, I am so overjoyed and blessed to be your mother. I do wish you a happy sweet birthday and will forever cherish the day you came into our lives. Your dad and I love you soooo much! Happy birthday dear! ūüôā9 copy


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